Corners of My Home

I have been so inspired by my success during the 30 Organizational Challenge! However, I look around my home and I am discouraged by the chaos in the other rooms. I’m wasn’t Born Organized like my mother, and having to make an emergency move right after a vacation and right before the holidays, in the middle of the school year and scouts and…well my house is way too cluttered, even for me.

I could give you a list of all the reasons why I can’t seem to get a handle on my house. But really, are they reasons or excuses? I’m not inherently lazy, though I could list a million other things I’d rather be doing than cleaning. Like blogging. I can’t just abandon it in lieu of decluttering my house! All 20 of my faithful readers would miss me too much! Not to mention that back when my internet access was gone for eleven painful days, I wasn’t exactly doing housework with all the extra time.

No, you know what the problem is? (Ok, all of you who just said “too much stuff” may stop reading this post and go watch Dr. Phil) It’s overwhelming! I look around me and I’m just at a loss. Where to start? What to do? How am I ever going to get it done?

The 30 Day Challenge wasn’t just for rooms. There was a separate challenge for small spaces. It dawned on me that I wasn’t surrounded by one gi-normous cluttered house, but just a whole lot of little cluttered corners.

Which got me thinking about some of the blogs I read and how when I first started reading them, they were posting pictures of all the wonderfully cozy corners of their home. For the life of me, I can’t remember which blogs those were (speak up if it was you!), but in trying to find them, I found SouleMama’s blog, specifically her “in my home” category.

Cozy corners…cluttered corners…

Hey, I may be a math turkey, but I can put 2 and 2 together and get 22.

So I thought that I’d start sharing the corners of my home, in all their cluttered glory. I’ll take a picture of one small space in my home which desperately needs work. I’ll set a deadline for myself to have it organized, then post the results. Sounds fun, doesn’t it?

I’m a little hesitant about it. I mean, do I really want the whole internet world to see how I live? I’ve even got some friends who think I’m so organized and together (Hi Carol! Hi Jen! Hi Heidis! Hi Cheryl!). Boy, are they going to be disappointed. Hopefully, though, this will give me some accountability, and give all ya’ll some laughs and maybe even some encouragement.

Now, which corner of my home to start with?

Preparing for the Feast

Boo is finishing his final preparations before receiving his First Holy Communion. We worked together in making his banner. That was a bit tough for me – finding a balance between letting him do it himself and making sure it was going to look “good.” Part of me kept thinking, “This is his banner, his day, let him do it.” On the other hand, this banner will be displayed at church and I don’t want him looking at it and thinking it doesn’t look as good as the others.

What’s a mother to do? In the end, I asked him what he wanted the banner to look like. I sketched while he talked. I picked out the felt colors, which he approved. I drew and cut out the paper patterns, which he also approved. I asked him if he wanted to cut out the felt, he said no. He just wanted to glue the peices on, which is what he did.

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His big request was a pair of praying hands holding a real rosary. I didn’t want to put a family rosary on the banner that would have to be removed later, so I said we could make a mini one. I offered to let him string the beads, but he wanted me to do it. I did trace his own hands for the pattern, though. I think the effect turned out cool.

I had to assert parental authority over his name. The guidance issued from the Religious Ed director was that the banners need to include the child’s name. Philip and I thought it best to use his real name, a nice solid, very long, Christian name. Boo wanted his banner to say “Boo.” We carefully explained that for this important event, we should use his real name. He said that if it didn’t say “Boo”, no one would know it was his. We compromised by using his real name, with “Boo” underneath.

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It turned out exactly the way he wanted it.

Tonight was rehearsal for the big day. The First Communicants will dress the altar as part of the Mass. Our RE director, in all her wisdom, chose Boo to carry one of the lit hurricane lamp candles. It’ll be ok, right? Actually, this is a very touching part of the Mass. I took pictures during rehearsal, since they have requested no pictures during Mass.

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(That’s Boo on the left.)
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How can he be so little and so big all at the same time?

And why does the song “Sunrise, Sunset” keep playing in my head?

In My Garden

In my garden you will find…

Lots of pink
impatiens

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petunia


Some inspiration

BVMary


A touch of whimsy

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Evidence of world travels

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(kimchee pots from South Korea)
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(pottery sun from Mexico)

Stone friends

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stone rabbits

and real friends
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Memories of the past

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Hope for the future

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and of course,

little boys
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Playroom Completed

The 30 Organizational Challenge is over. So what do I have to show for it?

Our playroom is now organized. I wish it was “finished” though. We didn’t have time to paint it before we moved in and Philip assures me that it’s not going to happen. The walls are a lovely shade of baby formula blah(look, Sandy, I’m blogging about my walls!) and they need some sort of decoration. I’ve got nicely framed posters from White House Easter Egg Rolls…somewhere amid the moving boxes. We also plan on installing some high, deep shelves for some of the larger stuffed animals. I even have curtains for the room. I think I saw them the other day. But the room is organized, and that is all that matters for now. Focus, focus!

Do you remember the room in it’s original state? You can also read about the work in progress in Working on the Playroom and Purging the Toys. But here are the Before and After pictures:

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Before: Standing right at the doorway. A heap of junk. You can see the attempts at organization with the bins, drawers and containers.

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After: The same exact part of the room. You can see the toy bins are lined up and neatly labeled. To the right of them is a 3-drawer unit for playmobile toys. Alas, there are still 2 moving boxes in the corner. It can’t be helped right now.

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After: This 3 drawer set holds our Playmobile sets. The tackle box on top holds the knights.

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After: The toy bins all neat and tidy and purged. I made new labels for them, too. More on that, later.

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Before: Just moving the camera to the left a bit. More chaos.

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After: There are toys in the middle of the room because Bip (sitting on the couch) was playing in the room while I was trying to take pictures. We moved the small bookshelf seen in the 2nd “before” picture (behind the cradle), added a larger bookshelf and removed the cradle.

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Before: Bookshelf #1. The top 2 shelves are my books, the bottom 3 are a mess of the kid’s books. A Little People farm and house are next to it.

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After: Bookshelf #1. The Little People toys are in the closet now, and in their place is a
hamper with fun noodles, swords, light sabers and a hobby horse. The top 2 shelves are still mine, I just straightened them up and used the space better. The middle shelf is for the children’s taller books and there are 2 magazine holders for their magazines. The next shelf down is the rest of their books. The bottom shelf are games and puzzle books. On the middle shelf you can see a little kitty litter pan:

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It holds their thin little books that tend to get lost or smashed with the regular size books.

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Before: Bookshelf #3, cradle and dress up clothes. The dress up clothes are to the left of the little bookshelf, in a white box.

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After: Bookshelf #2 (new) and Bookshelf #3. The very top of bookshelf #2 (the tall one) and the first shelf are for mementos. These things have sentimental value but are not played with. The next shelf is for paper storage. Boo and Pumpkin Girl each have their own “Becca Box” full of drawings they made of their sister. They also each have a white paper storage box, labeled with their name, for storing whatever paper treasures they may have. Cards, drawings, whatever, as long as it is paper, gets put here. When they are full, we will purge them together. These boxes are new and the children both really like them.

The cradle is gone and bookshelf #3 was moved into its place.

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After: Bookshelf #3, holding some larger toys that don’t fit anywhere else.

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After: The dress up box. I got a bigger box and with the children’s help, purged the dress up clothes that no longer fit them. I got baggies for some of the smaller pieces that were likely to fall to the bottom. The lid for this box is hiding behind the door because we don’t need it on a daily basis. The clothes will all fit inside, if they are folded nicely. I don’t expect that to happen, except when we move again.

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Before: Well. Um, this was supposed to be the crafting area.

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After: A real Crafting Zone! Table and chairs are readily available. The white bins hold crafting supplies. The blue bin is the new dress up box.

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After: The craft storage cart. Top drawer is crayons and pencils, drawer 2 is stickers, drawer 3 is paper, drawer 4 is coloring and activity books.

One thing I had done a few years ago was to make labels for our toy bins. I used clip art and a big happy font. Last year, I decided we had outgrown those and made word-only labels. Well, they didn’t work so well. Even though my children can read, clean up is faster and easier when they can see in second, from across the room, what a bin holds. So I took the time to replace the picture labels and even added some to other containers. Go back and look at the “after” pictures again and see if you can spot all the nicely labeled containers. When I told my children that I had made them new labels, they were pretty happy. The labels not only help with clean-up, but also to remind them of the toys they have, that when properly put away are out of sight-out of mind.

Here are close-ups of 2 of the labels:
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(Pumpkin Girl calls this set “pretty land”)

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And now, to make a long post even longer, let me answer the questions posed as part of the 30 Day Organizational Challenge.

1. What was the hardest part of the challenge for you and were you able to overcome it?

The hardest part was getting overwhelmed. Just looking at the mess, being angry with the kids for not maintaining the room, being angry with myself for not setting it up for them correctly in the first place, being angry at having so much stuff. Lots of anger. It got in the way of seeing rationally and being able to realize that it wasn’t so much one huge project, but lots of little ones.

What was helpful was having this 30-day deadline, being accountable to the challenge. We just worked one area at a time, step by step.

Another challenge was finding toy storage that is accessible to small children. Even though the room has a ton of vertical storage, the children can’t reach it! Some things just had to be stacked. We kept that to a minimum, and just accepted that some toys would need to be stored on the floor.

2. Tell us what kind of changes/habits you have put into place in order for your area/room to maintain its new order?

As I mentioned, I put new picture labels on the toy bins and storage containers. The new labels will quickly show what goes where. We also added boxes for important papers, which will keep them from getting stuck any ol’ where.

Another change was that we tried to group like items with like items. All the Polly Pocket/Princesses are on one shelf. The doll clothes suitcases are on one shelf (one suitcase for each different size doll). The building toys are on different shelves, but on the same bookshelves. Books and magazines are on the same bookshelf. All the Playmobile toys are in one cart.

We will continue to clean up this room on a daily basis, as part of afternoon chore time. More diligent monitoring on my part will help, too.

3. What did you do with the “stuff” you were able to purge out of your newly organized space?

Some of it we gave away, some was thrown away. Toys in good shape, that were used and liked at the time but are now outgrown were boxed up and put in storage to wait for our toddler to grow in to.

4. What was the biggest lesson you learned from this experience?

First of all, it’s not enough for the room to be cleaned up daily. Even though they do a good job of it, the children still miss things that are out of place. Mom or Dad need to go in to the room at least once a week and point out the things that need putting away. We need to go through the toys at least once a year, perhaps right before all the birthdays and holidays get started, and take out the toys and books that are no longer played with.

And less is more!

5. Now that you have completed the PROCESS, do you think having and keeping your space organized will make a difference in your life?

After taking the “after” pictures, I sat in the newly organized playroom and felt a sense of peace. I looked around and thought, “I like this room!” I have noticed that the children are playing with toys that have been neglected for a while. I think that is because now they can see most of their toys or at least the storage boxes. With a more organized space, I can nag less and they children can take a greater responsibility for their things. Did someone say “shalom in the home?”

In the long term, I hope that we can teach the children to have a place for everything and keep everything in it’s place. The old cliche is still valid. I hope this lesson stays with them for a lifetime. I also hope that they learn that organizing a space is not the end. You have to work to maintain it. A few minutes a day will keep an organized space from becoming a swirling vortex of junk. I hope the playroom never gets that bad again! Now this is the most organized room in our house. I hope to be inspired by it to organize the rest of the house.

I Better Get Busy!

I’d really better get busy!  I’ve got some deadlines I’m working against and I don’t want to miss them.  First, the 30 Day Organizational Challenge deadline is May 3rd.  I’ve been working hard on our playroom and need to take pictures and write a post about it tomorrow.  Then there is the Loveliness of Gardens fair on Monday, so I need to finish planting flowers and take pictures and post about that.  And Jamie asked me about using Sonlight and being Catholic and I’d like to give her a nice, thought out answer.  But most importantly, Boo’s First Communion banner is due on Saturday.  I guess it’s time to get off the computer.

Whatcha Reading?

I got tagged by Muddy Boots to share my reading list.  Which leads me to wonder – am I supposed to be reading?  I love to read and used to read all the time until certain small people started showing up in my life and demanding my full attention.  The littlest one is particularly demanding in that he requires my presence during his entire nap.  I used to really fight hard against this, but the Good Lord pointed out to me that this was a great way for me to do more reading and also to take my own nap, if needed.

So without further ado, my current reading list is:

1.  The Sonlight Catalog.  Really.  I love this catalog.  I love to read the articles printed in it, if only to confirm for the millionth time why I chose Sonlight.  I love to read the Cores that are ahead of us, and just dream of all the wonderful books we’ll get to enjoy.  I like to look for pictures of families that I "know" from the Sonlight Forums.  It just makes me happy.

2.  Real Learning.  Catholic and Charlotte Mason homeschooling.  This book just soothes my frazzled nerves and puts me back on track when things start to go astray.

3. The Purpose Driven Life.  I have never read this one.  I happened to sit down next to a bookshelf on the day after Easter and noticed this book on our shelf.  I grabbed it for nap time and when I started reading, I discovered that it is a 40 day devotional!  Perfect, I could start that very day and wrap up at Pentecost.  I have enjoyed this book so much, that every day I think, "oh, I should blog about that!"  But then I realized that I would end up quoting the book so much as to be in danger of copyright violations.  I am looking forward to re-reading it in another season of my life, when I can write down my thoughts without trying to keep still and not wake the baby sleeping next to me.

4. Faith and Family magazine and The Old Schoolhouse magazine.  I’ll count them as one since they aren’t books.

So there you have it!  In turn, I’m tagging Rosetta Stone, Minnesota Mom, and Falling Like Rain.

Scenes From A Saturday

I present to you my Saturday:

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Did a little gardening and a lot of chatting with friends. Our house is one of the last ones next to the baseball field and several of my friends walked by on their way to the games. I only got about a third of the front flower beds planted and nothing in the backyard. I was glad to stop and chat, though.

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Took Pumpkin Girl to hula lessons. She was asked to dance in the Asian-Pacific Islander festival on base. I got the rehearsal time wrong, but she was able to get a private lesson anyway. She picked it up very quickly and will have more rehearsals before the performance.

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Kids had a snack.

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Watched the sky for signs of rain.

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Admired Boo’s bean plant (another Cub Scout project). He’s hoping to actually harvest and eat the beans. It’s already got some pods!

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Three packages arrived in the mail!

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Yoikes, when did this happen?

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Took the young ‘uns to church. We all sat in the crying room because Philip was at all-day Cub Scout training and didn’t get back in time. He ended up meeting us at the chapel right as Mass was getting started.

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Boo had his last dose of penicillin! Yippee! Out of 40 doses, he only barfed once! Even Bip is happy for him.

For Love of Antibiotics

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We appear to be on the mend from the Strep Throat Affair of 2007.  Pumpkin Girl is back to normal and Bip has been fever free since last night.  Not that he’s sleeping better or anything.  He’s mad because now that he’s feeling better, Mama’s no longer susceptible to his requests for num-nums in the middle of the night.  Of course, nobody feels sorry for poor Mama who is tired out from keeping everybody’s medicine straight, dealing with a tired and crabby baby and who is, don’t forget, also sick.  My throat hurt so bad in the middle of night that I was willing to risk Philip’s life and limbs to have him go buy me a cool, comforting milkshake. 

This is significant, because you see, my Number One Rule for Personal Safety is this: Never go out "just to get some ice cream."  In movies, on TV and in books, nothing good ever happens to the guy who was "just going out for ice cream."  Think about it.  The family is hanging out, enjoying the late summer evening and dad says, "Hey, how about some ice cream."  The children cheer, the wife looks over at him lovingly, he grabs his keys and off he goes, about to become Father of the Year.  And BAM! some crazy driver runs a red light, mowing poor dad down.  Then everyone stands around at the funeral lamenting how he had been "just going out for ice cream."  So that’s my rule – no going out just for ice cream.  Pick up batteries or toilet paper, too while you’re out.  But for goodness sakes, don’t go out just for ice cream.  Milkshakes, being mostly ice cream, fall under this rule.

So that’s how badly my throat hurt.  I was ready to send my beloved out for a single milkshake. However, he was spared by being downstairs with Angry Baby, hoping to get him to sleep.

I asked him what they did last night while they were downstairs.

Phil: "Well, I turned on the TV for him."
Me: "Hmm.  He’s been watching a lot of TV ever since we all got sick.  We really should cut back."
Phil: "Yeah, but at 3 in the morning, TV is very soothing.  Scientific research says…"
Me:"Scientific research?  You mean our kids.  Four out of four K— kids are soothed by watching TV?"
Phil:"Exactly.  Four out of four K— kids are soothed by the flickering lights."

Hmm.  Just like their dad.

Meanwhile, as I mentioned, I am diligently trying to keep track of everybody’s antibiotics.  To complicate matters, Boo and I have to take ours on an empty stomach.  Even worse is that Boo has to take 4 doses a day.  I feel like Patton, barking out orders like clockwork:

11:00 am -"Everybody line up, it’s time for our meds! Get your water!  Bip!  Get back here!  Boo, go get your brother.  Pumpkin Girl -ready? Open up! OPEN! Drink it.  Good girl.  Next.  Bip, come on, just open.  Drink it!  Good boy!  Boo, Boo?  Stop complaining…"

12 noon: "Boo, sit down and eat.  No, eat RIGHT NOW. You must eat now or you’ll miss your next antibiotics."

And around the clock we go.

My throat still requires tylenol to keep it soothed as well as 2 or 3 cups of Sleepy Time tea laced generously with honey.  I’m hoping today is the last day of that.

Success with the Doctor

So we wrapped up Philip’s week of leave with one last trip to the doctor.  In the middle of getting Pumpkin Girl’s statistics taken, the fire alarm sounded.  So we all filed neatly and quietly out of the building and stood around in the shade waiting for the all clear.  The fresh air perked Pumpkin Girl up quite a bit and she was behaving much like her normal, sweet self, in spite of having a temperature of 102.7!

Earlier she had fallen asleep on the couch, then didn’t want anything but yogurt for lunch.  She was tired and achy, not at all like the bright eyed girl talking to the doctor!  Bip was doing better, too, hiding behind the curtain in the exam room and running around as best he could in the small room.  His fever had returned in the morning and even our little non-sleeping wonder had a morning nap. 

The doctor we saw was the same one I saw yesterday for my pink eye.  We filled her in on the rest of the story, including the timeline of Boo’s illnesses.  She looked at all our throats and ears and agreed that we should be on antibiotics.  Definitely Pumpkin, with her fever, headache and sore throat.  She hesitated about Bip, who’s fever was lower and is also on daily antibiotics anyway.  She also hesitated over me, since I don’t have a fever at all, but she thought my throat looked awful.  In the end, I think the fact that it is Friday pushed her over.  With the symptoms and positive exposure to strep, she thought it was best to be safe.  We’re taking Bip off his daily Septra during his course of amoxicillin, since will cover the same bacteria and to help prevent diarrhea. 

So now we’re all (except Philip who remains symptomless) on antibiotics.  All different kinds, doses and schedules.  I’m keeping track of them on our white board, along with all our doses of Tylenol or motrin.  Poor Pumpkin had such a terrible fever nightmare this afternoon!  With trying to get everyone squared away when we got home, I forgot to give her more Tylenol!  Hopefully I can keep everyone straight now.

This was not at all how we had planned our week.  At first we were going to Philadelphia to see the King Tut exhibit, but we waited too long to try to get tickets.  But since Philip took leave, we decided to do a little bit of school, then have some local adventures.  We wanted to return to Mount Vernon and find another museum to visit.  Those plans kept getting put off as we got sicker and sicker.  Philip celebrated a major milestone birthday on Wednesday, which went largely ignored.  We were going to go out to dinner to celebrate, but again, we were just too sick.  So here we are at the end of the week and we didn’t get to do anything fun.  Unless you count the fire alarm evacuation of the clinic.

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