Author - Lorri

Joy In the Morning

Today we celebrate Bip’s First Birthday. Trying to describe just how much he means to our family is impossible. All the pain and grief have not gone, but they have been softened by the arrival of our little boy. He does not replace Rebecca, no one ever could, instead he has created is own unique space in our family. He makes us laugh and brings us all so much happiness. Over the last year we have often said, “It is so nice to have a baby in the house again.” This last year has presented it’s own special challenges, but throughout, one thing remains, and that is our love for him, and his for us.

So here’s to Bip, a very special gift from God, and living proof that while weeping may in fact last through the night, Joy does come in the Morning.


August 2005


August 17, 2006

Geese in the Backyard

As I was getting Bip dressed this morning, I looked out the window and saw geese! Our backyard opens into a small grassy field and a baseball field. The geese were actually in the baseball field, but it was still cool to see. After breakfast I got the camera and took some pictures.

I like this guy standing on the pitcher’s mound.

Knowing absolutely nothing about geese and being the good homeschooling mom that I am, I promptly looked these guys up in my field guide. The National Audubon Society Field Guide to Birds tells me that this geese are Canada Geese, having a brownish body with black head, long black neck and conspicuous white cheek patch. They live near lakes, bays, rivers and marshes. You may remember that we live about 2 blocks away from the Potomac River, so this isn’t actually the first time we’ve seen geese here. We see them on a regular basis, usually around the grassy areas along the river. We have enjoyed watching them fly in the V-shaped formations and hearing them honking. My children have tried to get close to them, walking v-e-r-y slowly towards the flock, which in turn stands very still. The geese regard my children rather suspiciously, then moving as one, side steps away, then stops again. My children move in closer, still going slowly, the geese continue side-stepping away, then – honk, honk , honk! they take refuge in the river. It’s a pretty amusing scene to watch.This is the first time I’ve seen them in the housing area, but according the field guide, it may not be the last. Apparently, Canada geese are “especially noticeable in later summer and early fall, when they form molting flocks on golf courses and large lawns…” Well, that explains the baseball field. But is it late summer already?

After I loaded the geese pictures on to my computer, I thought they would make a good start to my nature journal. I want to get a head start on mine so the children can see one in person before starting their own. As luck would have it the book A Pocketful of Pinecones arrived from Amazon.com today. It is a fictional account of a mother in the 1930s as she goes through the first year of homeschooling her two children. She is following the works of Charlotte Mason, and the book focuses on the children’s nature studies and journal. I’m already several pages into it and enjoying it very much.

 

An Interesting Discovery

I hesitated to write about this, but you know, it’s my blog and I’ll brag if I want to!

A couple of days ago, I mentioned that my children read above grade level, but I wasn’t sure exactly at what level. Curiosity got the best of me and I found a free online reading assessment. I had Pumpkin Girl go first. Holy Hallowed Halls of Academia, Batman! The girl reads at a 3rd grade level! Remember, she is only 5 1/2. So I wondered about Boo. Same thing, he also reads at a 3rd grade level. Not as shocking, but impressive nontheless (is that one word or three?)

So what’s an overachieving mom to do?

I will continue to keep them at “grade level” for language arts. They may be strong readers, but they need to keep grammar, dictation, and spelling at K and 2. But how do I encourage their reading skills to improve, not stagnate? The problem is that 3rd/4th grade level readers will be way beyond them in terms of content. What to do, what to do? I posed the question over at the Sonlight Forums and I have already received some good advice. I got some good resources, book and author suggestions and this one key piece of advice: stick to children’s books written pre-1960. Anything newer could have subject matter that is too much for my young brood. It also occurred to me to look into the readers sold in my Catholic homeschool catalog. There were some good possibilities there, too. In a day or two, I will gather the resources and suggestions and post them here to my blog.

You know, this really shouldn’t surprise me much, given how much Philip and I both love books. I remember very clearly telling my 2nd grade teacher that I had just finished reading Little House On the Prairie. She said, “You mean your mom read it to you?” and I said, “No, I read it myself.” After that, on library day, I was allowed to go into the “big library” which was for 3rd graders and up. My first time there was amazing. I was bit timid at first, seeing all the stacks, but I got over it and never looked back.

End of the Year

It’s over! School, that is. More specifically, First Grade for Boo and Pre-K/K for Pumpkin Girl. We tied up the loose ends, finished up the subjects we’d fallen behind in and officially ended our school year. We actually school year round, so we will be starting 2nd Grade and Kindergarten on August 28th.

This last school year went quite differently from what I had planned. Last summer we moved twice and added a baby to our family. Our year-round schedule allowed us to work around the interruptions without getting stressed out about falling behind, but things happen and we got further off course than I’d “allowed” for. My plan had been to keep up school throughout the summer, finish in July, take a short break and start up again at the beginning of August. However, some unanticipated summer events got in the way. It wasn’t so much the events themselves as it was when they occured. I attempted to have school around the various activities, taking a week off for VBS, back in school for a week, two weeks off for swimming lessons, back in school for two weeks, off for a week for family visits, back for one last week to finish up. It was too disjointed that way and hard to get back into things for just a few days. This coming year, without any moving or new babies, we should find ourselves in a better position to incorporate our summer activities. I’m not too worried about it, though. We’ll see what happens and roll with the punches. It’ll all work out in the end, just like it did this year.

For those interested, we will be starting our new school year with Sonlight Core 1, which is world history. We’ll spread it out over 2 years, so that when the jump in difficulty occurs in Core 3, Pumpkin Girl won’t be completely overwhelmed. I’ve added in The Mystery of History along with Sonlight materials to help give us a little more “meat” as we take Core 1 slowly. Both children will listen in to the Bible, history and read alouds in Core 1, as well as Science 1.

Boo will continue with Horizons Math. He’s currently doing two lessons a day of level 1 and it suits him perfectly. He’s doing Sonlight Language Arts 2. I’m not sure what grade level he can actually read at, but LA 2 is a good fit for his spelling, grammar and handwriting ability.

Pumpkin Girl will do Horizons Math Level K. She’d gotten all the way to lesson 42 when it became too hard for her. We took a break and she worked on a thinking skills book. She’s been asking to do math “like Boo does”, so we’ll be back to Horizons at the start of our new school year. She’ll do Sonlight Language Arts K. She is my Wonder Reader so is actually doing the readers from LA 1 already. She’ll be done with those soon and move on to the readers from LA2. But again, for grammar, spelling and handwriting, she needs LA K.

The extra fun stuff will include nature notebooks and artist/picture studies a la Charlotte Mason. They will both continue with knitting and weaving potholders (can you say “grandmas’ Christmas presents”?) and their illustrated story notebooks. I found a home ec course for children their age which looks like fun. Art and music appreciation will round things out.

Yes, I know. Looks like a lot of girl stuff. My goal is to teach both children to manage a home, craft a little and appreciate the arts. Knitting is excellent for hand-eye coordination, plus teaches patience. When they are older, they will both learn to care for a home on the outside, like mowing the lawn and tending a garden. Their home ec skills will include car care and woodworking. We have classes for those things on base, they just need to be old enough to take them.

Lastly, it looks like both children will be into scouting this year. Boo will be playing soccer in the fall and Pumpkin Girl is taking ballet.

As for Bip, he’s just along for the ride.

Something’s Fishy

An online friend gave me a call the other day. Her family was vacationing in Ocean City, MD and wanted to meet up with us for the day in Baltimore. I’ve already met her in real life more than once, so I already knew she was not some crazy stalker lady. Philip got the day off and we headed north for a 1 hour car trip to the National Aquarium in Baltimore. We got lost, of course, but by sheer luck and a good dose of my God-given natural sense of direction, we found the Inner Harbor quickly and without having to tell Boo to be quiet more than once.

We had both purchased tickets online for an entrance time of 11:00. It was a good thing too, because right after we arrived, they started giving out timed entrance tickets for same-day purchasers. The wait was only 15 minutes then, but it can actually be several hours on busy days.

We had a really great day. The kids’ favorite part was the dolphin show.

They also enjoyed the sharks, the big sea turtle and seeing all their friends from “Finding Nemo.” Here’s some of our favorite pictures:


Pumpkin Girl liked this little frog. She said, “It looks like sauce.” It’s actually called a tomato frog. I wish I could have gotten a better picture.

 

 

Some Heroes Have Fur

September 11 is coming up again and this year will be the 5th anniversary of those events that should never have happened.  If you would like to mark this painful date with a tribute on your blog to one of the victims, please click the link on my sidebar.  As of today, there are not enough people signed up for every victim to be honored.  You don’t have to be a great writer or to have known the person you are assigned.  A simple Google search will give you enough information to write a short paragraph.  That’s really all that’s needed.  We’re just trying to remember that these were real people, with ordinary lives, just like you and me, who got caught in extra ordinary circumstances.

While there is information readily available about the heroes and victims of that day, not as much is known about the people and animals who worked tirelessly in the search and recovery efforts.  I can’t even imagine such a job!  The mother of one of my lifelong friends is one of those people.  She and Lucy the Wonder Dog worked several recovery missions, including the World Trade Center.  Lucy the Wonder Dog had to be put down recently.  Please go read the great tribute to Lucy and the great work she did over her lifetime.  I’m not so much a dog person, but Lucy is a Hero in my book!  Well done, Lucy.

Memory Bracelet

I don’t think that I mentioned here that I won a prize for my poem about Rebecca. I had entered into the writing contest at Joy In the Morning. Well, look what arrived in the mail over the weekend.

Loni made me this beautiful bracelet as my prize! I had a little trouble choosing what I wanted the bracelet to look like. Rebecca is still a very important part of our lives. We talk about her every day and feel her presence very much. So I didn’t want a memory bracelet that was only about her. Instead, I chose to put her birthstone with the birthstones of all our children, with a heart in the center. I didn’t see it before it arrived in the mail and I am so happy with how it turned out. Loni makes really nice bracelets, and not just for grieving mothers. Christmas is coming and I’m thinking these would make nice gifts. Check out Loni’s website: Memory Bracelets and tell her I sent you!

 

 

Swimming Lessons, Wk 2

Swimming lessons are over and they were a great success! The last few days were tough on the moms though, because it was already 80+ degrees when we got to the pool at 9am. Add in the humidity and it was brutal! I had Philip stay home with Bip the last two days. It was just too much for the baby.

The children were both in the Level 1 class which was designed to get them comfortable with being in the water. I would like to move Boo on to Level 2, but the classes are all booked. I’ll look for more lessons elsewhere over the winter, once soccer has ended. When lessons started both children were worried about swimming. Pumpkin Girl wouldn’t put her head under water and Boo would only put his chin in. They started in the 2-3 foot junior pool and by the end of the 2 week session, were in the regular pool with life jackets.

The instructor had them taking off their life jackets one at a time and she helped them to swim across the pool. Sometimes she would let go of them to see how they did on their own. When she did it to Boo, he said he used his “freak out moves” to help keep him up. They also went down the waterslides several times until it was no big deal. Then on the last day, right at the end of class, they went off the diving board! Pumpkin Girl went first…

Then Boo…

Overall a great experience!

 

 

Carnival of Family Life #12

The Carnival of Family Life #12 has been posted for your reading pleasure!  Check out all the fun entries here:

 

 

There were lots of entries this week, so you’ll have fun going blog hopping.  Make sure you read the whole list of entries and find the surprise about ME!

Swimming Lessons

The first week of swimming lessons is over. In spite of a rough start, the week went well. On Friday, the class moved out of the 3 ft junior pool, put life jackets on and went in the big pool. A good portion of the moms were wary, wondering how their children would do. Most of them were fine. Boo wasn’t worried at all and swam back and forth across the width of the pool with no problem. Pumpkin Girl wasn’t worried at first either. However, when trying to swim across the pool, she just wasn’t strong enough to propel herself forward. The wake of the other swimmers made her start drifting across the pool. Her instructor, who is maybe 17 years old, but GREAT with the kids, did rescue her and helped her across. On the way back, Pumpkin Girl got a face full of kicked up water and started crying. Again, the instructor got her and brought her to the side of the pool and helped her out. We calmed her down and I gave her a hug and she agreed to try again, now that most of the class was on the other side of the pool. She did great.

Then the class moved on to going down the water slide. I thought there was no way Pumpkin Girl was going to do it. A couple of the kids didn’t and just jumped into the pool from the edge next to the slide. But Pumpkin Girl marched right up there and went down! She cried when she popped back out of the water, but the instructor encouraged her and she was fine. She gave me a thumbs up as she swam by. But once she reached the edge of the pool, I could see she was about to cry again. I got her out, gave her another hug and told her she was doing great. She perked up but said she didn’t want to go down the slide again. But while we were talking, the class started down the slide a second time.

In the meantime, the sun had come out and I needed to move myself and Nicholas into the shade. When Pumpkin Girl’s turn came again, I remained out of her view, but ready to step in if need be. But again, she surprised me and headed up the stairs and the down the slide.

Later, she said her favorite part of the class was getting her face wet. Go figure!

One of the things I have been really happy about is that the instructor does not insist on the parents staying out of things. I was once told by a potential gymnastics instructor that I would not be allowed to stay with Boo, then 3 years old, and I needed to “kiss-kiss him goodbye.” She actually made kissing noises. I stopped filling out the paperwork right then and she ended up kiss-kissing my $175 goodbye. I know my own children, I know their strengths and weaknesses. I knew that Boo would need me to be there, not quite right next to him, for about 2 or 3 classes, then he’d be fine. He had wanted to take gymnastics classes, just needed some additional reassurance. But I wouldn’t want my child in any class that couldn’t understand and respect the emotional needs of a 3 year old.

So I was pleased to see that the instructor actually allowed 2 of the moms to get right into the pool with their children. Those little girls are probably not ready for this level of swimming, but at least their moms are right there, where they need them. And when another mom and I needed to get our children out of the pool for some hugs and reassurance, the instructor was good with that.

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