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We Wish You a Merry Christmas

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And she brought forth her firstborn son, and wrapped him in swaddling clothes, and laid him in a manger; because there was no room for them in the inn.

And there were in the same country shepherds abiding in the field, keeping watch over their flock by night.

And, lo, the angel of the Lord came upon them, and the glory of the Lord shone round about them: and they were sore afraid.

And the angel said unto them, Fear not: for, behold, I bring you good tidings of great joy, which shall be to all people.

For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Saviour, which is Christ the Lord.

Luke 2: 7-11

Our Lady of Guadalupe

I’m having a hard time to adjusting to real life.  In spite of getting up early every day of our cruise and turning in at night with the children, we were living quite the life of leisure.  I particularly liked eating breakfast on Deck 9, out near the Mickey pool, watching the ocean float by.  Followed by an outrageous game of what I can only describe as gorilla ping-pong with Philip, then dropping the big ‘uns off at their club or taking pictures with princesses…yes, it’s a life I could easily become accustomed to.  Actually, I think I already did.

We’ve started back to school with less than our usual enthusiasm.

And in spite of my best of intentions, we’re not even having enchiladas for dinner on this feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe.  sigh.

But in honor of the day, let me share with you one of my souvenirs from Cozumel, Mexico

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How cool is this?  It’s a puzzle, of all things! She weighed too much to travel in the suitcase on the way home, so I had to hand carry her.  Well worth it, I think.

Answers – Part 3

I had so much to say in answer to the following question that I thought I’d tackle it in two separate posts.  Today I’m answering the part in bold.

Q:How in the world do you actually find time to educate your children,take care of your household duties, and find the energy necessary to do all those cool crafty projects you always show us? All of that, and still manage to keep your sunny personality and your faith so strong! I wish I just had an ounce of that!

Sunny personality? Well, I don’t know about that.  I’m actually quite the pessimist.  I’m the quintessential Eeyore.  But a long time ago I learned a good lesson.  Philip was off fighting in Desert Storm and we weren’t married yet.  I was living alone in San Francisco, going to school and working part time.  It was one of the most difficult times of my life.  I realized then that I had two choices everyday – sit home, watch the news and cry or get up, go to school, go to work and survive.  I had to make that choice every day.  Oh, I allowed myself to cry when I needed to, and be scared and angry and all that.  But every day I just put one foot forward and started moving.  Sometimes life is like that.  You either let it kill you or you survive.  You can’t control what happens to you but you can control how you react to it.

As for faith – it’s simple really.  I must have faith or I won’t survive.  I would just quit right now, crawl into a hole and die.  I MUST believe that Rebecca is waiting for us in heaven or I couldn’t get up in the morning.  I MUST believe that God loves her more than I ever could and that he will use her life and death for good.  I know absolutely the reason she had to die.  I don’t know why she left so young, but I know who to blame that we are all mortal.   I know what I must do to see our family reunited.  I know it’s going to be better than I could ever imagine.  I’m glad she “brought her baptismal gown unstained into the next life.”  I have faith and so I have hope.  I don’t know how people without faith can survive the death of a loved one, I really don’t.  I have no explanations for matters of faith, I leave that for others.   I found this quotation by Albert Camus be so appropriate:

“I would rather live my life as if there is a God and die to find out there isn’t, than live my life as if there isn’t and die to find out there is.”

Jesse Tree Ornaments

Whew! The Jesse Tree Swap is completed and all the packages have been taken to the post office. I was going to share a little bit of the behind the scenes goings on, but let’s just get to the good stuff.

Everyone did such a wonderful job with their ornaments. I can’t say enough about each one of them. I had so much fun opening the packages as they arrived and marveling over the different interpretations of each symbol.

I also want to say a big THANK YOU to Mary Chris who drove up from Virginia to help me pack and mail the boxes. She’s also hand delivering 4 of them. If not for her, I think I’d still be trying to unload my car at the post office.

And so without further ado, I present, in no particular order, the Jesse Tree Craft Swap Ornaments of 2007:

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Bethlehem Prophecy

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God’s Forgotten Scroll is Found

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Ruth and Boaz (Sheaf of Wheat)

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In the Beginning

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Sacrifice of the Son (Lamb)
(due to a miscommunication, 2 sets of sheep were made. The other one is similar)

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Christmas Star

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Bronze Serpent

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Noah’s Ark and Rainbow

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Angels Proclaim the Miraculous Birth

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Joseph in Egypt (each colorful coat is different)

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The New Covenant

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Prophecy: Prince of Peace

(if you’re seeing a pumpkin hat, click on the picture and you’ll see the correct one )

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Prophecy: Good Shepherd

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The Fall of Adam and Eve (the apple is a truer shade of red and looks less like a tomato in person)

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Tablets with 10 Commandments

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Prophecy: Suffering Servant

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Return to Jerusalem: Preparation for Messiah (Brick Wall)

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Exile and Persecution (Fiery Furnace)

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David and Goliath (Slingshot)

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Mary, Mother of All Living (each ornament has a different picture of Mary)

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Prophecy: A Shoot From the Stump of Jesse

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Light of the World

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Prophecy: The New Creation (Lion and Lamb together)
(image copyright Stampin’ Up! 2007)

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Birth of Jesus

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The Blessing to Abraham (Tent and Camel)

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Jonah

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The Promised Land: Canaan (Cluster of Grapes)

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Passover (Door with Blood )

More information about the Jesse Tree can be found here: The Jesse Tree

Details on how to organize your own Jesse Tree Swap are here: Jesse Tree Craft Swap

Jesse Tree Craft Swap

Part 2 of 3

When I read an article in Faith and Family magazine about organizing a Jesse Tree craft swap, I knew I wanted to do one.  I thought about it briefly, then dove right in.  I asked the crafty-in-a-good way ladies on the 4 Real Learning forum and the members of my local Catholic homeschool group to participate.  I crossed my fingers and prayed that I’d get the required 28 sign-ups.

The basic idea is that 28 people agree to make 28 of the same ornament before a given deadline.  The ornaments are then collected and distributed and returned so that each participant has a full set of 28 different ornaments.

Most people make their own set of Jesse Tree ornaments.  There are many advantages to doing your own – you get to decide exactly how each will look, you can have consistency in your ornaments by making them all similar in style, you don’t have to worry about deadlines and postage or someone dropping out of the swap.

On the other hand, being involved in a swap also has its advantages.  Primarily, it is easier and faster to make 28 of the same ornament.  It’s cheaper too, especially when you are dealing with supplies that come in packages, spools or sheets.  You only have to come up with one design, and once you’ve worked it out, you can set up an assembly line to work quickly.  Plus being involved in a group with a deadline helps you to actually complete your ornament.  Many of the participants in my swap mentioned trying many times to create a Jesse Tree for their family, but petered out before Advent was over.

If you are interested in setting up a Jesse Tree swap, here is where you can find the documents I used:  Jesse Tree Craft Swap.  You will need to modify them for your own needs.  If all your participants are local, your job will be easier as you can meet in your parish activity room to swap ornaments together.  If the ornaments will be mailed to you, here are some additional instructions you’ll want to provide:

  • ornaments should be packaged into one gallon size ziplock bag.  Participants should label their bag with their name and address.  They can use a 2nd bag if needed, but should not put each ornament into its own baggie.
  • ornaments should be wrapped if needed to ensure they arrive safely.
  • set a deadline for you to receive the ornaments by.  Allow yourself at least one week to process, package and mail the boxes out.
  • Participants should send ALL of their ornaments.  They should NOT keep their own ornament out.
  • Have everyone include return postage.  This gets a bit tricky.  Most of the time they can just purchase return postage and stick it in the package before it is sealed.  However, some of the ornaments were very light and it was clear that the return postage would be higher.  I would recommend setting a postage amount, say $6-$9 and have everyone include that set amount in their package.  Return any unused postage with the ornaments.

Keep good records. I thought I was doing a pretty decent job, but I found out too late that two different people made the same ornament.  We worked out a solution, but I feel terrible.  I could have avoided the whole mistake had I sent everyone a list of what each person was making and had them all double check.

Have a waiting list of swap angels.  Those are the people who are willing to step up at a moment’s notice when someone drops out.  Every swap has someone who needs to drop out, sometimes at the very last moment.  Swap angels come in and rescue the whole thing!

Well, there you have it, the basics of organizing a Jesse Tree Swap.  It seems overwhelming, but with enough time (I started sign-ups in mid-October) you can easily pull it off.  I wrote this post because I know that someone will probably ask me for help in organizing a swap in the future.  My next Jesse Tree post will show you the behind-the-scenes nitty-gritty of the swap, plus pictures of the finished ornaments.

Find more information about the Jesse Tree here:  The Jesse Tree

See the completed ornaments here: Jesse Tree Ornaments

The Jesse Tree

But a shoot shall sprout from the stump of Jesse, and from his roots a bud shall blossom. Isaiah 11:1

Part One of Three

So what exactly is a Jesse Tree?

Well, it’s simply a tree decorated with ornaments that tell the story of Jesus’ ancestors and of the events leading to Jesus’ birth. The name is taken from Isaiah 11:1,”But a shoot shall sprout from the stump of Jesse, and from his roots a bud shall blossom.” (Jesse, you’ll remember is the father of King David.) During Advent, one ornament is hung on the tree each day. You can read an accompanying scriptural passage or just say a line or two about the meaning of the ornament.

From CatholicCulture.org :

THE STORY OF THE JESSE TREE Jesse was the father of the great King David of the Old Testament. He is often looked upon as the first person in the genealogy of Jesus.

In Church art a design developed showing the relationship of Jesus with Jesse and other biblical personages. This design showed a branched tree growing from a reclining figure of Jesse. The various branches had pictures of other Old and New Testament figures who were ancestors of Jesus. At the top of the tree were figures of Mary and Jesus. This design was used mostly in stained glass windows in some of the great medieval cathedrals of Europe. The Cathedral of Chartres (which was dedicated in 1260) has a particularly beautiful Jesse Tree window.

Interestingly, there is not one set of “right” Jesse tree symbols. You can do a search for them on the internet and in books, but most lists will vary in some way. If you want to start a Jesse Tree for your family, pick a list that appeals to you. Many of them have scriptural readings associated with each symbol. Or combine lists to make it unique to your family.

Ornaments can be anything you want – purchased or found items or you can craft some or all of them yourself. Fun foam, sculpey clay, felt- anything that works for you.  You could even print out pictures from the internet and tape them to the wall in a tree shape.

The Jesse Tree is so much more than a count-down to Christmas.   It is the telling of the story of God’s love and the promise of the Savior.  If you’re looking for a way to really emphasize the holiness of Christmas, the Jesse Tree can be a simple but effective tool.  While I think that the Jesse Tree is primarily a Catholic thing, there is no reason that other Christian denominations can’t start this fun tradition.

In Part 2 of my Jesse Tree Series, I’ll talk about the Jesse Tree Craft Swap that I am hosting, along with information on how to organize your own swap and some valuable lessons that I learned.

More information about the Jesse Tree Swap here: Jesse Tree Craft Swap

See the completed Jesse Tree Ornaments here: Jesse Tree Ornaments

Martinmas

So Sunday was Martinmas.  It also happened to be Veteran’s Day.  Someone pointed out to me the wonderful coincidence that St. Martin of Tours was himself a soldier. Incidentally, it was also the weekend that local Boy Scouts and Cub Scouts collected bags for food for distribution to the poor in their Scouting for Food campaign.  Of course, St. Martin is best known for his kindness to a poor beggar. It’s wonderful how God takes care of the details like that.

Collecting food for the poor and honoring our veterans – a fitting way to remember the example of St. Martin.

Now since we made lanterns a couple of days ago, I certainly wasn’t going to let the Feast of St. Martin, or Martinmas as it’s called, pass by without a Lantern Walk.

First, Boo and Pumpkin Girl made a super easy Meatball Soup from the Pampered Chef’s kid’s cookbook.  Once that was made, we armed ourselves with the Cub Scout Songbook and set off with our lit lanterns attached to sticks.

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We started off singing “This Little Light of Mine” which just seemed appropriate.  A few more well known songs, like three versus of “Yankee Doodle”, and “The Brave Old Duke of York” and we were good and warmed up.  Our heavy jackets helped, too.  But we really got going singing in rounds.  “Down By the Station,” “Three Blind Mice” and “Row, Row, Row Your Boat” were the favorites.  Those songs have nothing to do with St. Martin, but the tradition is to walk along with your lit lanterns, singing songs, and those were the songs we knew.

We finished off with another round of “This Little Light of Mine,” then returned for our nice, warm soup.  Boo remembered to pray the homeless who were out in the cold that night.

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Martinmas Lanterns

In a rare convergence of prior planning and creativity, the children and I made lanterns for Martinmas, which isn’t until November 11. I was planning on making them last year, but early in November we went on vacation and our house flooded, landing us in temporary housing for a couple of weeks until we could move into a new house. Kind of ruined our plans.

This year was different. I knew what I wanted to do and when I wanted to do it. I had all the supplies on hand anyway, so it wasn’t that hard to pull off.
First we read up on St. Martin of Tours. I was pleased to find out that Boo had already learned a little about him at his Religious Ed class, so I let him tell what he remembered of the story first. Then we talked a little bit about Martinmas traditions, including the making of paper lanterns, parading around and singing songs.

So now I present our Martinmas lanterns. You probably have most of the supplies at home, if not then you still have time to run to the store and get them.

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Here’s our basic supplies. A sheet of 12×12 cardstock for each lantern and tissue paper. 12 x 12 cardstock can be found with the scrapbooking supplies at your craft store. Or ask a scrapbooking friend, she’ll have a variety of colors to choose from and will most likely be happy to give you some.

So here we go! Cut 2″ off one end. Save the scraps!

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 Fold 3/4″ from the cut edge and glue it down. I used a Fiskars paper cutter with the scoring blade to help fold the cardstock. You can use the flat edge of a butter knife to score the paper, then use the handle to flatten the fold down.

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 Draw a line 2″ from the bottom edge, score along that line…

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 …and cut notches. Be careful not to cut past the line.

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Draw figures or shapes to cut out. If you enlarge the above picture, you can see that I sketched with pencil first, then outlined with a black marker to make it easier to see where to cut out.

I highly recommend basic shapes about 1″-2″ in size. The moon and stars on Pumpkin Girl’s lantern were about right. The little girl was way too detailed, even for me to cut out. I also marked off about 1″ on the right where the paper will overlap when glued together.

Below is Boo’s lantern. His has fall leaves which were easy to draw and simple enough to cut out. Remember that card stock is much thicker than paper, so simpler is better. However, his tree was much too big and open.

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 I highly recommend not drawing anything that is grounded on the bottom line, like the little girl and the tree. It weakens the lantern when you glue it together. Stick to things that are free floating like the leaves and stars.

Cut the shapes out carefully. The sharper the scissors, the better.

Cut tissue paper to fit the inside of the lantern. Don’t go crazy measuring and trying to get a perfect fit. You can use one piece for the whole lantern or use smaller pieces in different colors for each cut out. Glue the tissue paper over the cut-outs. Make sure you get the glue right up to the edges of the cut-outs so that the tissue sticks well when the lantern gets rolled up. I had my children use glue sticks for this part since tissue paper is so fragile.

Glue the short sides of the cardstock together to form a tube with the tissue paper inside. Overlap the edges where marked and use paperclips to hold together while drying.

Push the notches down to make a base. Here we used white glue because the cardstock didn’t want to behave itself. I also used scrap pieces of cardstock to make it stronger. For Boo’s I used the top of his cut out tree, for Pumpkin’s I used cut a 3″ piece from the strip we cut from the very beginning.

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 Below are the finished lanterns. You can attach a ribbon or string across the top so that the lantern can be carried on a stick for Martinmas lantern walk. Or leave as is for a table decoration.

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 Of course, these lanterns are highly flammable! Please don’t use real candles with them. We are using those fake tealights that are widely available. You could also use chem light sticks.

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 So there we have it – simple paper lanterns for Martinmas.  I hope you enjoyed my little tutorial.   I can’t believe that I both made crafts with my children AND remembered to take pictures for the blog.

The Blessing of the Pets

…or Why It’s Fun to Be Catholic.

st-francis.gifToday, October 4th, is the Feast of St. Francis.  It is a tradition in many parishes to have a blessing of the pets on this day.  Last year we dragged the whole hermit crab terrarium to church to have all the crabs blessed.  Now we’re down to only one crab, but Boo and Pumpkin Girl were anxious to have her blessed.

We almost didn’t make it, as Swirly the Crab was trying to dig herself into the sand and one should really leave burrowing crabs alone.  It makes them crabby if you don’t. I checked her again right before we would have needed to leave and she was out, cruising around the tank.  So I rounded up the children, put the crab into a plastic bowl and out the door we went.

Except for Swirly, all the other pets were dogs.  Last year there were a couple of cats and a rabbit, too.  Anyway, we said St. Francis’ prayer and listened to a reading from Genesis about God creating the animals.  I had to smile at the mention of the “crawling things” as Swirly tried to get out of the bowl.

A little sprinkling of holy water and a quick prayer over each pet and we were done.  They had treats for the dogs, but of course, they didn’t have any hermit crab snacks.  Swirly was treated to some coconut when we got home.

As for why I refer to Swirly as a “she” – well, she’s the crab Pumpkin Girl picked out and everything Pumpkin owns is a girl.  Of course.

Prayer of St. Francis

Lord, make me an instrument of your peace.

Where there is hatred, let me sow love;
where there is injury,pardon;
where there is doubt, faith;
where there is despair, hope;
where there is darkness, light;
and where there is sadness, joy.

O Divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek
to be consoled as to console;
to be understood as to understand;
to be loved as to love.
For it is in giving that we receive;
it is in pardoning that we are pardoned;
and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life. Amen

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